Everything we encounter can help us see who we are, if we know how to look. Our clearest mirrors, and most difficult challenges, are often other people—those wonderful, nagging, kind, selfish, thoughtful, lazy, sweet, arrogant people. Becoming aware that what we see in others is a part of who we are is the first and most powerful step on the journey of self-discovery.

This is not a typical how-to book for solving relationship problems. If you have read any of our other books, you probably knew that already. The theme here is awareness, responsibility, clarity, and freedom.